Friday, September 10, 2021

Bob Leroux

 My friend Bob Leroux recently passed away.

I knew Bob for over 50 years and remember him as a person who would help anyone with anything. Always on the move and always happy to assist. We formed a group in High School with Bill Evans and did all sorts of fun and crazy things together - model boats, model planes, board games, going to his cottage, bicycling. I remember the time Bill and Bob actually cycled from Montreal to the cottage (about 100 miles) in one day to prove it could be done. Over the years, as we moved around, we kept in touch and got together, I was best man at his wedding. I remember once being stranded in Toronto due to the airports being closed and spending the night at Bob's little apartment. I napped when he cooked dinner and woke up to the apartment being full of smoke as Bob was barbecuing vigorously on the balcony, I thought the place was on fire. As we got older, Bob was always the same, a happy bundle of energy helping folks. People say he had a strong temper like his father, but I never experienced it personally, although I saw it when Bob and his Dad would be knee deep in mud under the cottage arguing over what was wrong with the jet pump (which seemed to fail every year). Was it the check valve, the jet valve, the foot valve, or the pump, who knows? I also remember when Bob met Diane and was smitten by her. We once drove to the cottage with Diane in the passenger seat and Bob driving with me telling Bob every 5 minutes "look at the road, not Diane!". I am still wondering if they were the ones who planted flamingos on our front lawn for my birthday. Bob was also an inventor, I did not know until recently that he had patents from working at Nortel, Dragonwave, and Huawei. Anyway, we kept in touch and visited as we moved around. Finding out that Bob had PKD was terrible news, and its progression was tragic, but I want to remember Bob for who he was, a great friend and a great person.

Sunday, August 8, 2021

Time for a Rant

 I hope nobody is still reading this blog, because I am going to rant about stuff that is bugging me, and this will not sound good.

What is bugging me these days (its a long list):

  1. The unvaccinated that doubt science, believe in conspiracies, or just cannot be bothered.  If you don't want to get vaccinated, stay home and don't infect the rest of us or get sick and take up hospital space.  And forget that "freedom" argument - no one has the free right to infect others with a potentially deadly disease.
  2. The politicians who treat covid as an opportunity to get votes.  Up here, we have elections coming:
    1. Trudeau, the federal leader, wants the votes of the loony left health nuts who refuse to vaccinate, so he is opposed to vaccination passports.
    2. Ford, the provincial leader, wants the votes of the nutty right conspiracy and religious anti-vaxxers, so he is opposed to vaccination passports.
    3. The Republicans in the USA who refuse to allow common sense public health measures are committing mass murder, and they should be charged.
  3. The public health agencies that still make us go through a lot of hygiene theater even though transmission through touch is extremely rare.  Lots of useless sanitizing, hand washing, alcohol hand sanitizer being used for no good.  Then they wonder why people doubt their useful recommendations.
  4. US Republicans who continue to follow Trump the ignorant narcissistic racist blowhard who lost them the house, senate, and presidency.
  5. All the companies who use the 18 month old pandemic to justify their lousy service.  Hours long waits on hold, poor service, late deliveries, things out of stock, poorly cooked food, no refunds - all manner of bad customer service is still being blamed on the pandemic.  Clearly, most companies are not at all flexible or creative as they cannot adapt.  And we are paying more...
  6. The millennials who whine and complain they cannot afford a house.  I have some sympathy but you are not going to be able to buy the same house as your parents in the same area.  It has not worked that way for about 100 years.  You start with what you can afford in an area you can afford and cut out most luxuries like eating out, big vacations, and nice cars for a few years until your salary has gone up and you have paid off part of the mortgage.
  7. Elder folks who want to stay in their house until they die.  Face it, once you are over 80 or even earlier, you will not be able to handle it without a large amount of help from your family or expensive hired help.  Besides, why do you need 3 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, a finished basement, a big lot, and a two car garage if there is only one or two people living in the house?  After 80, you do not have the stamina or health to handle a modern house.  I am dealing with this with my mother of 91 who has dementia and still living in her house.  Move into a retirement home or get a condo.
  8. Idiots who want to "defund the police".  Who is going to deal with the criminals, the emergencies, and all the other stuff we ask the police to handle?  Also, if you call the police about a person who is violent and threatening (family member perhaps), that person may end up wounded or dead for good reason.  We don't want our police giving their lives when they are under mortal danger.  The police may not be able to calm brother Johnny with a knife who is threatening to kill anybody who comes near him - you could not do it, why do you think they can?
  9. Calling racism against Muslims "Islamophobia".  It is not a phobia or disease like fear of heights, it is just racism pure and simple.  We don't have Blackophobia or Jewophobia, so let's stop this right now.
  10. All the spam calls about car warranties, duct cleaning, the IRS, etc.  Fix caller id so people cannot spoof it and make these calls without punishment.
  11. Social media and online media that allow you to make anonymous comments.  If you had to identify yourself to make comments, you would think two or three times before writing nasty racist trash.
  12. Social media in general is a cancer.  They want to either excite you or make you mad so you will check in with them 10 times a day and they can show you ads that don't look like ads.  They will also sell you or your kids information to anyone.  Most of them are unregulated monopolies - is there an alternative to Facebook, Twitter, or Google?  Why do these companies buy up startups before they get going?  To stop competition and to build a better monopoly hold on the audience.
Okay, I am done now.  That's a relief.

Thursday, March 18, 2021

Why Canadians Think the USA is Terrific

We know a lot of Canadians who winter in the USA and/or visit a lot.  They love America - the weather, shopping, entertainment, restaurants, roads, etc etc.  "It's a great place, why is Canada so far behind?" they lament.  Having lived in the USA for 20 years recently and in Canada for about 40 years, I was a little puzzled by this absolute affection.

Well, I figured it out.  When you visit from Canada or spend 4 months in Florida during the winter, what do you do?  You shop, go to the beach, entertain yourself, eat out, drive around on the nice big roads...  These are all things that America does better than Canada.  What don't you do?  You don't interact with the government, you don't use the medical system, you don't go to blighted areas, you don't deal with natural disasters, you don't deal with insurance companies, you don't buy medicine, you don't deal with the justice system, etc.

These are the Achilles heels (both feet) of America:

  1. Governments at all levels are starved of cash and cannot provide adequate services.  Try lining up at the Social Service bureau, try getting a license at the DMV, try to get help on your taxes from the IRS.  Trust me, it is almost always a nightmare, and you feel sorry for the poor civil servants, who look like all they can afford for clothes is the bargain section at Walmart.
  2. Some areas of town are so blighted that you never go there at night and you keep your car doors locked if you go during the day.  Your American neighbors will advise you to get a gun for personal protection, in spite of the fact that these guns are almost exclusively used for suicides and family violence.
  3. The rules for health insurance and Medicare are almost undecipherable.  Did you get COBRA when you were laid off?  Did you turn 65 and stay on COBRA?  If yes, you will pay a penalty for Medicare for the rest of your life because you saved the government money.  And good luck if you get a bill from the hospital, it will be pages long, and show that you owe a lot even if you have insurance, and you will spend hours on the phone trying to whittle it down to something like your insurance deductible.
  4. Many areas of the USA like Texas routinely experience major natural disasters like tornados, hurricanes, and flash floods.  Yet the building codes do not mandate much in the way of protection.  If you get hit, your home will be featured on the 6 oclock news as they show the pieces floating down the street.  Your insurance company will then tell you that you are not covered for floods so tough luck.
  5. If you get an exotic disease or condition, your drugs may bankrupt you, in spite of whatever government or private drug insurance you bought.  In the USA, there are typically over 30 drug plans for the elderly on Medicare and you get to choose one a year and it may not cover your particular condition.  Better luck next year!
  6. Don't get involved in the justice system!  The conviction rate is over 99%.  So if you drive drunk, get into a fight, decide to make extra money selling drugs to friends, get into a family fight, you will go to jail for years and years if you get caught.  You will also get convicted even if you are innocent.  The prosecutor will offer you a deal: "plead guilty to this charge and you will get 2 years or go to court and the maximum sentence is 15 years and we will demand this punishment."  Unless you have the best lawyers, lots of money, and lots of luck, you will plead guilty even if you are innocent.
So yes, America is better than Canada in many ways, but it has a dark side that you never experience as a visitor.